giving kids roots and wings Ginsburg, Kenneth R. creator author. Jablow, Martha Moraghan author. Mulcahy, Peg book designer. Rembert, Daniel cover designer. text bibliography ilu 2015 2015 3rd edition. monographic eng

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xvi, 357 pages : illustrations ; 23 cm This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension. Part 1. Resilience and stress. Why resilience? -- Stress and its effects -- Ingredients of resilience: 7 crucial C's -- Not letting others undermine your child's resilience (or psych you out!). Part 2. Competence and confidence. Getting out of the way -- The value of play -- Noticing, praising, and criticizing -- Authentic success -- Thinking clearly -- No more lectures -- "I get it!" -- Changing behavior step-by step -- Shifting the blame to save face -- Media literacy -- Not being broken -- Building confidence. Part 3. Connection, character, and contribution. Connection -- The art and importance of listening -- Strengthening family ties -- Widening the circle -- Some cautions about connection -- Supporting resilience in military families -- Nurturant connections offer meaningful protection against the effects of childhood trauma -- Character -- Grit: the character trait that drives performance -- Contribution. Part 4. Coping. Getting a grip on stress -- Taking action -- Taking care of your body -- Taking care of your emotions. Part 5. Control. Styles of discipline -- Positive discipline strategies -- Increasing kids' control -- Delaying gratification -- Preparing our families for lifelong interdependence -- One rung at a time -- Not everything is within our control. Part 6. When resilience is challenged beyond reasonable limits. Extreme circumstances -- Turning for help -- When your own resilience reaches its limits. Part 7. Especially for communities and individual teens. Community-based resilience-building strategies -- Just for kids: a personalized guide for managing stress -- Parting thoughts. general Kenneth R. Ginsburg, MD, MS ED, FAAP ; with Martha M. Jablow. Includes index. Includes online videos. Includes bibliographical references and index. Child rearing Parent and child Resilience (Personality trait) in children Resilience (Personality trait) in adolescence Adolescent psychology Child psychology Parenting Child Adolescent Adolescent psychology Child psychology Child rearing Parent and child Parenting Resilience (Personality trait) in adolescence Resilience (Personality trait) in children HQ769 .G562 2015 155.41824 Ginsburg, Kenneth R. 9781581108668 2014932928 http://www.healthychildren.org/English/healthy-living/emotional-wellness/Building-Resilience/Pages/default.aspx http://www.healthychildren.org/English/healthy-living/emotional-wellness/Building-Resilience/Pages/default.aspx VPW 140207 20260204141508.0 18034774 eng